Have you ever felt shy in any situation? Have you noticed that sometimes is difficult to face the facts, simply because there is just something that stops us when we act?
The shyness occurs because we feel afraid at times we do not know what to do, and possibly imagine possible outcomes of X or Y disastrous course of action on our part.
Mainly let shyness is complicated, because we rely on what others think, and thus predispose us to be judged and not very well qualified. Some people are extroverted by nature however; most of us feel shy at some point in our lives, so here give you some tips for you to learn how to stop shyness.
Remember a time when you felt comfortable enough? Perhaps this lifelong friend, or your family …
It is important that you identify in which situations you feel better, so you know exactly how to get to produce confidence in situations where shyness overcome you.
Are you participate in active conversations? No matter who they are … with classmates, relatives or friends
When you practice, participating in conversations diminish your shyness because you are now more prepared to speak in front of others.
Talk to yourself? and if you do … you treat it? you judge?
When you talk with yourself and you automotives to do things rights, your shyness begins to disappear, because shyness is 99% internal and 1% external. Do not judge, only makes things worse.
Do you always greet other people? in the study, work, or other places…
When ever you greet others, you subconsciously programs to speak without fear of others, so the conversation is a simple “good morning”.
Will you compare yourself with others? if so, recommend you not keep doing it …
You must understand that not need anyone’s approval, and do not you compare yourself with anyone, just because you are the owner of your life, responsible for your actions and accountable for results.