In marriage and the couple are teams. To make the relationship work we must rely, not only in private but in front of friends and family. Let’s try not to ridicule us in public, resolving our differences of opinion in private. So the relationship is much more bearable and enjoyable.
One of the keys to the success of marriage (or with your partner) is to understand what things are important to him and give them to know, whenever possible. He must do the same for you. It is the giving and receiving what embellishes and strengthens a relationship.
Men need to know that we are on his side and support him in front of his friends and family. Few things feel him worse that to feel that his wives take part in “other team” instead of showing a common front.
A gift for him, therefore will be:
- Do not ridicule him in front of friends or relatives.
- Put you agree with him, and if that is impossible, keep quiet or change the subject.
- Wait to be alone to talk about any topic that you do not agree. It may seem an attitude “macho” or “submissive”, but nothing is further from the truth. It will be negative if you behave well through fear or obligation, but never if it arises from the freedom.
When you see your team play football, almost unconditionally support him. In the same move for which you ask for penalty in favor of your team, if it is against your team you say that “there was nothing”. In the same way, shows the whole world that you and your man play on the same team. Others will envy.