A marriage is not granted. Embracing each other and disinterested love are essential. Thank each other, compliment, gratitude you show are not unnecessary. It remains essential that you have your wedding shows. For children it is very important that they see their parents love each other.
Positive Confirmation
The virtue of purity in marriage life consists in an imaginative way of love to keep feeding the other. Some examples:
* Spend a few minutes each day to think of signs of affection and sensitivity;
* From your love for others and thank him/her to make if he/she does the same, and bring the mutual attraction;
* Locate the appropriate moments to be together, talk, relax.
Affirmative denial
All this in order to avoid love cools. The result is that conjugal love grows. Keep such distance of the opposite sex in the workplace, while studying, traveling. The fact that you’re married, you mean that the consequences of intimacy with persons of the opposite sex should not be underestimated! Confidential statements against your spouse, you should avoid regarding others. It is equally inadvisable to intimate confidences to listen, because they create a band. It is not good to look at others the notion that you don’t find with your spouse. At this point it is tempting to behave and your silly example to forget that for every man or woman is easy to adhere to an alien from its best side to show. Do not think you have to be less cautious against unflattering appearance persons of the opposite sex.
Experience shows that in these cases easier confidences and intimate moments occur in the first instance, although seem harmless (a problem with a child, irritation over a bad manners of the husband …), but they cause a tangle of wires that are difficult to cut and sometimes not even perceived as negative, until you, someday a moment of special sensitivity and reduced internal resistance, in serious lapses infidelity.
In the present time may need more emphasis on the affirmative denial to explain because of the frequent temptations from the environment. The positive confirmation is important. The marital intimacy should cover a wide range of areas, by thoughts, moods, share and try one heart.
The love between the parents, provided in the upbringing of the children
A condition within the human an atmosphere can create where the character of the children till bloom can come is the strong love of the parents. There are also recommendations, techniques, formulas, processes and positive directions to give children a good education. All recommendations are pinhead in the universe of love.
Who brings a child into the world, carries a great responsibility for his happiness. To succeed it is necessary to make your partner happy, whatever its flaws. If the parents argue, the child feels pain, even if it is then stroked. Lively children take an example to their excited parents. A child is not happy by being showered with gifts and caresses, but by including it in the love of parents.
The promise of renewal
Every night you would be able to positively answer the following questions:
Have I shown my affection?
Have the others that noticed?
In the family life you need all your strength. Carelessness can be interpreted as a lack of love or loyalty.
The love between spouses is experienced in everything, they heard in the presence or absence, to speak or remain silent. It is evident in gestures, gifts, at meals, being together, for the most trivial pursuits … in short, everything.
Realize that negative behaviors are more influential; leave a scar and a fierce response to calls. Positive behavior has a discreet, subtle effect, and calls only at term, often indirect, response. Fin reactions leave no trace as they quickly are put right, if necessary, apologize. Even if your response is exaggerated, you can not judge the sensitivity of the other and it is better to admit the need for recognition of the hurt feelings. This should definitely not be seen as a weakness, on the contrary!