If one were to establish a hierarchy of tests that may face a pair, infidelity would probably arrive at the top. Because the treason just sow the discord at the heart of the relationship and undermines the foundations of trust acquired with time and experience. Should we forgive and forget about infidelity and trying to forget? And how to revive the relationship before the treason? Investigation on suffering talked little and that plagues many couples.
The first step is to understand. Understand what was wrong with the couple to the other has felt the desire (need?) To find comfort elsewhere. After the birth of their first child, many women who leave their husbands a little, all acquired in the joy of motherhood. The spouse may feel excluded from the symbiotic relationship that develops between a mother and her baby. Many men are tempted to look elsewhere. It is important that men are sounding the alarm to express their feelings, and that women should endeavor to include the father in this relationship often too exclusive.
Forgiveness is certainly a necessary step to recreate a relationship of trust between both partners. But there can be no forgiveness without sincere regret on the part of those who cheated. Conflict resolution will depend on the look that the unfaithful husband will land on his act. If he sees it as a single point of failure, due to a difficult period that crossed the couple, the woman may then begin the journey of forgiveness. The key is awareness on the part of both spouses on the severity of the act and the difficulty of rebuilding a life together after that.
The last step is concerned with women who have experienced infidelity but also all the others. This is set up daily vigilance in the mutual relationship. Not an oversight, which would introduce a climate of suspicion and would make life impossible for both partners, but rather an awareness of the need to maintain the relationship through effective communication. We must be able to talk with an open heart, and on a regular basis. Above all, keep in mind that married life is not smooth sailing but a path sown with obstacles. Therefore moving the heart light, just by looking at where you put the feet.