If you’re in love you want nothing more than to move in together! Share a house together and live together with your lover! Is that a good idea? How romantic it may sound, the first year is mainly used together! Quarrels are abundant, who makes the bathroom clean? The first year together, creates more stress than you think, you have to learn together. How can you make together a feast instead of a drama?
Your own place
It sounds romantic: living with your new love. Divide with your new friend a house and are together happy. Then why the classic fights during the first year of you together? Because you and your friend need a place in your home. Living together in a house you need to learn. How? How do you keep the peace between you? By following these tips.
If you’re in love, you have a perfect picture in your head. Your daydream about the romantic life you together in your home will have. It’s okay to dream about an ideal image, but realize that the reality will be different. During the cohabitation learn the other well known: only your ideal image of your dreams. How do you do that?
- By occasionally make compromises and you
- More flexibility.
Everyone has “weird”, “strange” or even “irritating” habits. Also you and your new love in your life! Dealing with each other strange habits is a matter of acceptance. Someone does not work, really. If you find it difficult to accept the other as he or she is, you can proceed to some extent on negotiation: what you give, what he does and vice versa: you take what and what he gives.
Need for privacy
Togetherness is wonderful, especially if you’re in love. However, the need for privacy need that big of a place. No room for you is a big stress factor. Do you need more space? Or does your friend need more privacy? Give each other that space! Indicate that you need a private place.
At the beginning of your relationship, it seems inconceivable, but there comes a time in everyone’s relationship to what the “boring” begins to be: rut is just around the corner. Even if you only just living together, it is important to good quality time to spend with each other. Make it a good habit of collaborating with each other at least once a week, something fun to do. Surprise each other! Keep doing your best for each other!Is she loves a romantic night out? Is he fond of Formula I and want to race? Do it, allow each other these surprises!
Who does the housework in your house? Well, that’s a tough! Is your friend brought up with 4 sisters who all have the house cleaned for him? Then it becomes difficult for your friend to learn that he also has responsibilities in the household. Or does your friend just a lot of clean, but in a way that you do not like? Treat him like a child in any case, it is counterproductive. Make clear agreements with each other who take the task in house. The agreements are not met, and then you can say anything. Have you both too busy with work, a worker at home an option.