Rich, successful, status, prestige, attractive, neat and a good brain. Is that what women really want from men? It comes at least in the vicinity of what women men tend to think.

But again, is that really what women want? Or it is still all a bit more nuanced. Fortunately though. Otherwise, a relationship between man and woman are going to be something exceptional.

What a woman really wants
What a woman really wants is a man with whom they feel safe, protected and loved. A man who can take care of her and their descendants, whatever happens. That is not her intellect, her upbringing or society tells her that. But it is her feeling, instinct, what inspires her.

Even in the 21st century, we humans still an instinct. Something that in the love yet always a more important role plays than we these days once in a while appear to realize.

Instinct does not rich, successful or intelligent. At the appearance of someone we instinctively only ‘perception’ or someone looks healthy or not and whether the person has genes that suit us. What instinct can also tell us is whether someone has the personal qualities and character has to be successful.

To be successful, you have:

* A healthy dose of confidence in yourself
* The guts to actually go for what you want
* The passion, perseverance and enough energy to the goals you set yourself to get too.

If you have one, you are radiating it out in your doings and the way you say things. And when the instinct of a woman tell her that you have on those properties, it is very likely that they will feel attracted to you.

If you’re still not entirely convinced that appeal to women has little to do with appearance, but more with your personal characteristics, you have a joke but a few profiles of women read on the average dating site.

You will soon discover that the so-called requirement lists of women often tantamount to having the right personal qualities. And the beauty of personal characteristics is that you can improve and what to change if you wish.

For example if you find that you actually have very little confidence, you can now decide to have some serious work so you get a bit more.

You will then discover that it is often the logical consequence of the other one. Because once you get more confident, makes you more. And when you’re more daring, you also get more done in life.

And the more you together in your life, the more prestige, status and respect you accumulate in your surroundings and among professionals. Because if you are good at something and you do it with passion and you radiate that out again, it is still not gone. Not even by women.

For all these things because the simple result of the personal qualities that a woman is instinctively attracted to a man.

So when you’re not as successful with women, a bit of tinkering with your personal characteristics such as to grow more confident, sometimes a good first step towards more success with women.