When we started a relationship begin to imagine how our future will be next to that person, make plans, we flew for years to old age and dream of the feeling that today live in our hearts will never die.
But sometimes the dream ends and the love that decorate the garden of our soul with the most luxuriant flowers will wither, and what was before a splendid garden now is nothing more than a set of dead flowers.
We used to resonate with love, that we scorched to the bone and filled us with hope and dreams, but in this present only parisuhteen hoitaminen to the rhythm of habit and fear of hurting the person who has loved us so much. We look back at your partner’s eyes with impetuous desire, but with every kiss, every hug, every touch, we begin to feel what we do not accept.
Yes! It changed shape! because we still love, but unlike before, now our heart who has decided that before we steal every breath now becomes another chapter in the book of our lives.
However, and even knowing that we do not love our partner still playing war of attrition: we know already that feeling is gone, the couple feels, question, investigate and ultimately, although it is a reasonable doubt regarding the relationship holds, we close our eyes and as if nothing was happening.
Love sometimes die without reason, perhaps because it was not love but a long, long love affair … What matters is that we always have the option to vindicate with ourselves and with others, there may be suffering, tears, disappointment, but it is better to plug the leak before there is a flood, because if you look carefully at the end of disaster will only losses and sorrows.
It will always be grateful sincerity of your heart, you choose whether to give life to the truth of your feelings or kill with hypocrisy and cynicism of the darkness of your lies.